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		<title>Nobody Can Do This For You</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 17:03:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[dreams]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[encouragement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[forcing ourselves to grow]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[forgotten dreams]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Learning To Push Yourself]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[So often in times past I found myself in a state of mind that held me captive, I was fearful, I was doubtful, I felt of little value, but things are changing. I have in the past two years come to the realization that there is tremendous value in pushing ourselves beyond our self made limits.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="font-family: sans-serif; font-size: medium;"><em>&#8220;If nobody laughs at your dreams, they aren&#8217;t big enough!&#8221;</em></span></strong></p>
<p>I am personally witnessing changes in the lives of people that some would not see as possible. Some of you are taking some of your old almost forgotten dreams, dusting them off, building on them, and seeing new life. Wow, how exciting is that! We are doing this with the understanding of &#8220;Nobody Can Do This For You.&#8221;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s true, if our dreams are going to happen, we must muster every bit of motivation we can summon. So often in times past I found myself in a state of mind that held me captive, I was fearful, I was doubtful, I felt of little value, but things are changing.  I have in the past two years come to the realization that there is tremendous value in pushing ourselves beyond our self-made limits. Many don&#8217;t like pushy people, but there is a time where we need to be pushy, the time is now, and our future is depending it.</p>
<p>The encouragement I have for you is this, to find a way to push yourself a little every day, to come to a stopping point and then go a little further, this is how we are forcing ourselves to grow. To all our pushy adventuresome friends, have a great and advancing day!</p>
<h3>Learning To Push Yourself!</h3>
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<p>Free Dream Building Workshop Every Thursday Evening, at 600 Airport Road Menasha, Wisconsin! Call (920) 277-0707</p>
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		<title>Major Destroyer Of Dreams!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 May 2010 22:40:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>bettu</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[dreams]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dreams and goals]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[major destroyer]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[What I am hoping to do, is to possibly expose an issue many have, that will keep them from ever reaching the dreams and goals they have for their lives. It's so sad to watch this struggle in people and it's my hope that I can help some of you to be free of this.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="font-family: sans-serif; font-size: medium;"><em>&#8220;If nobody laughs at your dreams, they aren&#8217;t big enough!&#8221;</em></span></strong></p>
<p>I am excited about this week and the things we are going to be talking about, because they have been life changing for me and they can be for you too. So many times we get excited about life and the dreams associated with it only to have them fall apart due to an issue we have.</p>
<p>We struggle and struggle to find out just what it could be, but many times we just don&#8217;t see it. What I am hoping to do, is to possibly expose an issue many have, that will keep them from ever reaching the dreams and goals they have for their lives. It&#8217;s so sad to watch this struggle in people and it&#8217;s my hope that I can help some of you to be free of this. To tell you just what it is, in the best possible way that I know, this destroyer in life is unresolved anger. You can&#8217;t see it all the time, it only shows it&#8217;s face some of the time, but where ever it goes, destruction follows.</p>
<p>Unresolved anger will keep people from getting close to you, it will keep you from being spiritually motivated, it will cause you to lose value in yourself and will put a freeze on your maturity level. Unresolved anger is caused by hurt, frustration and fear, and not knowing how to deal with it at the time it occurs. Good parents will help their children deal with hurt, frustration and fear, so that it doesn&#8217;t become unresolved anger, but many times we don&#8217;t have that type of help and we don&#8217;t know how to deal with these bad situations.</p>
<p>Now you are going to know, because I am going to tell you, the key to resolving anger is forgiveness, it&#8217;s getting yourself in a position to truly forgive anyone who might have been at fault for your hurt, frustration and fear. This is the key to setting you free, to go after your dreams and goals, with peace in your mind.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s an exciting run at life we have and I hope that you can freely live it to the fullest!</p>
<h3>A Major Destroyer In Life!</h3>
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<p>Free Dream Building Workshop Every Thursday Evening, at 600 Airport Road Menasha, Wisconsin! Call (920) 277-0707</p>
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		<title>Finding Ways To Improve Your Life</title>
		<link>http://www.thebetteryou.org/finding-ways-to-improve-your-life</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Apr 2010 23:19:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>bettu</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Coaching]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dreams]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[excuses]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of my goals in life is to eliminate all excuses for not doing what I know I should be doing, I know if I can do this one thing, that I will be able to stay the course and some day finish the race.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="font-family: sans-serif; font-size: medium;"><em>“If nobody laughs at your dreams, they aren’t big enough!”</em></span></strong></p>
<p>These are the best of times, in fact I believe that never since the beginning of time, have we had such an opportunistic period to be alive. But just like having anything of great value, we have to protect ourselves, or we could easily lose the opportunity that would come our way in fulfilling our dreams.</p>
<p>There is one area that is so deadly, some people call it a cancer of the mind, and I would like to call it excusitis, that is in great need of our attention. I can’t begin to tell you of how many people I have seen and met through the years that had good ideas and good intentions and have fallen victim to this dream killing disease.</p>
<p>This is why it is so important that we keep ourselves in an environment that will encourage us to keep moving on, and not let us settle for excuses. One of my goals in life is to eliminate all excuses for not doing what I know I should be doing, I know if I can do this one thing, that I will be able to stay the course and some day finish the race.</p>
<p>Remember, there are no excuses, there are just things in life that you need to do!</p>
<h2>Reaping Your Destiny!</h2>
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